If you think making love and having sex are one and the same, here are some differences to help you out:
Having sex is about the end result, an orgasm. When making love, an orgasm is great, but connecting emotionally with your partner is just as important. When having sex, you might talk dirty. When making love, you use more emotional and loving words. When having sex, you may hold back your emotions. However, when making love you are more open to being vulnerable. When having sex, you might pretend to be somebody else. When making love, you don’t mind being yourself. Finally, having sex might make your mind wander off in fantasyland. However, when making love you don’t mind being fully present in that moment. What other ways can you tell if you’re having sex or making love?